#character customization

I've been playing MMORPGs for years, but lately, I've been craving a game with really deep character customization. I'm talking about the ability to fine-tune every aspect of my character's appearance, skills, and playstyle. I've tried a few different games, but nothing's really scratched that itch yet. Can anyone recommend a game that really delivers on this front? I've heard good things about games like Black Desert Online and Final Fantasy XIV, but I'd love to hear from people who have actually spent some time playing them. What are your experiences with character customization in these games, or are there other games that you think do it better?